[{"@context":"https:\/\/schema.org\/","@type":"Article","@id":"https:\/\/www.agar.cz\/deti-a-hranice-co-to-znamena-v-zivote\/#Article","mainEntityOfPage":"https:\/\/www.agar.cz\/deti-a-hranice-co-to-znamena-v-zivote\/","headline":"D\u011bti a hranice: co to znamen\u00e1 v \u017eivot\u011b?","name":"D\u011bti a hranice: co to znamen\u00e1 v \u017eivot\u011b?","description":"Nutnost vyty\u010den\u00ed a dodr\u017eov\u00e1n\u00ed hranic je jedna z nej\u010dast\u011bj\u0161\u00edch v\u00fdchovn\u00fdch metod, kter\u00e1 se v posledn\u00ed dob\u011b sklo\u0148uje. \u0158\u00edk\u00e1 se, \u017ee<a href=\"https:\/\/www.agar.cz\/deti-a-hranice-co-to-znamena-v-zivote\/\" class=\"read-more\">Read More<i class=\"fa fa-long-arrow-right\" aria-hidden=\"true\"><\/i><\/a>","datePublished":"2021-09-15","dateModified":"2021-09-15","author":{"@type":"Person","@id":"https:\/\/www.agar.cz\/author\/#Person","name":"","url":"https:\/\/www.agar.cz\/author\/","identifier":1,"image":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/fa654ddfaa4b9f86b3cbb991001ccf40?s=96&d=mm&r=g","url":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/fa654ddfaa4b9f86b3cbb991001ccf40?s=96&d=mm&r=g","height":96,"width":96}},"publisher":{"@type":"Organization","name":"agar.cz","logo":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"\/logo.png","url":"\/logo.png","width":600,"height":60}},"image":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"https:\/\/www.agar.cz\/wp-content\/uploads\/dite%20mezi%20dospelymi.jpg","url":"https:\/\/www.agar.cz\/wp-content\/uploads\/dite%20mezi%20dospelymi.jpg","height":0,"width":0},"url":"https:\/\/www.agar.cz\/deti-a-hranice-co-to-znamena-v-zivote\/","about":["D\u011bti"],"wordCount":449,"articleBody":"Nutnost vyty\u010den\u00ed a dodr\u017eov\u00e1n\u00ed hranic je jedna z nej\u010dast\u011bj\u0161\u00edch v\u00fdchovn\u00fdch metod, kter\u00e1 se v posledn\u00ed dob\u011b sklo\u0148uje. \u0158\u00edk\u00e1 se, \u017ee dne\u0161n\u00ed d\u011bti maj\u00ed probl\u00e9my s hranicemi, \u017ee si je jako rodi\u010de neum\u00edme nastavovat. Probl\u00e9m spo\u010d\u00edv\u00e1 v tom, \u017ee pro spoustu lid\u00ed se jedn\u00e1 jen o abstraktn\u00ed pojem, pod kter\u00fdm si nedok\u00e1\u017eou nic konkr\u00e9tn\u00edho p\u0159edstavit.\u00a0Zjednodu\u0161en\u011b m\u016f\u017eeme hranice vn\u00edmat jako bod, za kter\u00fdm se ji\u017e nenech\u00e1me jedn\u00e1n\u00ed druh\u00fdch l\u00edbit. To ale nen\u00ed to sam\u00e9 u d\u011bt\u00ed. U nich bychom mohli \u0159\u00edci, \u017ee jejich hranice jsou m\u00edstem, na kter\u00e9m c\u00edt\u00ed oporu a jistotu, a to jim mus\u00ed d\u00e1t pr\u00e1v\u011b nikdo dosp\u011bl\u00fd. Nem\u016f\u017eeme na d\u011btech nech\u00e1vat n\u011bco, na co zat\u00edm nesta\u010d\u00ed.\u00a0\u00a0\u0158\u00edk\u00e1 se, \u017ee d\u011btem m\u00e1me ji\u017e od \u00fatl\u00e9ho v\u011bku p\u0159ed\u00e1vat \u010d\u00e1st zodpov\u011bdnosti &#8211; nap\u0159\u00edklad jim umo\u017en\u00edme v\u00fdb\u011br. Ale nastavov\u00e1n\u00ed hranic m\u016f\u017eeme tr\u00e9novat t\u0159eba t\u00edm, \u017ee nedostanou v\u00fdb\u011br naprosto ve v\u0161em.\u00a0Jste te\u010f zmaten\u00ed, proto\u017ee v\u00e1m to p\u0159ipad\u00e1 jako rozpor?Situace, ve kter\u00fdch nech\u00e1me d\u00edt\u011b rozhodnout, nevybereme n\u00e1hodn\u011b. Tam, kde m\u00e1me v\u00edce mo\u017enost\u00ed, ale my jako rodi\u010de v\u00edme, kterou mo\u017enost zrovna pro d\u00edt\u011b chceme, tak tam d\u00edt\u011b postavme p\u0159ed hotovou v\u011bc &#8211; nap\u0159\u00edklad: \u201cdneska si oble\u010de\u0161 tuhle bundu, proto\u017ee fouk\u00e1.\u201d Pokud jde ale o barvu tri\u010dka, tam dejme d\u00edt\u011bti na v\u00fdb\u011br. D\u00edt\u011b se nau\u010d\u00ed, \u017ee je na na\u0161e rozhodnut\u00ed spolehnut\u00ed.\u00a0\u00a0Tak\u00e9 je d\u016fle\u017eit\u00e9 trvat si na sv\u00e9m i ve chv\u00edli, kdy tu\u0161\u00edme, \u017ee n\u00e1\u0161 nesouhlas vyvol\u00e1 bou\u0159liv\u00e9 emoce. V\u00edme, \u017ee d\u00edt\u011b chce poka\u017ed\u00e9 zm\u00e1\u010dknout tla\u010d\u00edtko na mikrovlnn\u00e9 troub\u011b. My v\u0161ak jinde zrovna va\u0159\u00edme n\u011bco choulostiv\u00e9ho, kde jde o minuty. Vyslovme \u00fa\u010dast, \u017ee ch\u00e1peme, \u017ee je d\u00edt\u011bti l\u00edto, \u017ee nemohlo prov\u00e9st obl\u00edbenou \u010dinnost, jasn\u011b vysv\u011btleme d\u016fvod a t\u00edm debatu ukon\u010deme. Zpo\u010d\u00e1tku to bude bolestiv\u00e9 a p\u0159iznejme si, \u017ee \u010dasto chceme zbytek dom\u00e1cnosti i sebe pouze ochr\u00e1nit p\u0159ed k\u0159ikem. V dlouhodob\u00e9m m\u011b\u0159\u00edtku je v\u0161ak v\u00fdhodn\u011bj\u0161\u00ed skousnout zuby a n\u011bkolikr\u00e1t p\u0159ihl\u00ed\u017eet emo\u010dn\u00edm v\u00fdbuch\u016fm, ne\u017e potom v budoucnu \u0159e\u0161it mnohem v\u00e1\u017en\u011bj\u0161\u00ed probl\u00e9my s d\u011btmi, kter\u00e9 nev\u00ed co se sebou.\u00a0                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        3.6\/5 - (8 votes)        "},{"@context":"https:\/\/schema.org\/","@type":"BreadcrumbList","itemListElement":[{"@type":"ListItem","position":1,"name":"D\u011bti a hranice: co to znamen\u00e1 v \u017eivot\u011b?","item":"https:\/\/www.agar.cz\/deti-a-hranice-co-to-znamena-v-zivote\/#breadcrumbitem"}]}]